Sunday 14 August 2016

Staring at the sun

I've had a lovely couple of weeks off, mooching and walking and eating and sleeping and, of course, reading. I sat and read Stephen King's On Writing in a whole day, which was bliss. Another of the books I've seen off was lent to me by one of my yoga students. We have parents of a certain age and were musing about life, the universe and everything - and death. The book is Staring at the sun: overcoming the dread of death by Irvin D Yalom. No, don't click away! It's one of the most optimistic books I've read for ages. So anyway, in amongst the  philosophising and coping strategies, there were a couple of snippets that I thought might be of interest to my writing friends: 

'Montaigne suggested that a writing studio have a good view of a cemetery in order to sharpen one’s thinking.' I once had some crystal therapy (don't judge me) in a room that overlooked a churchyard. The lady giving the treatment loved the view. Make of that what you will.

‘Indeed, the desire to be of value to others is largely what keeps me pecking away at my keyboard long past the standard time for retirement.’  Pecking away: isn't that a lovely image?

‘The act of writing itself feels like a renewal. I love the act of creation from the first glimmering of an idea to the final manuscript. I find the sheer mechanics to be a source of pleasure. I love the carpentry of the writing process: finding the perfect word, sanding and burnishing rough sentences, tinkering with the tick-tocks of phrase and sentence cadence.’  Stephen King says something similar. Again, a lovely image, don't you think? 

The other thing that struck me as an editor is that Yalom twice refers to the subtitle of his book as 'overcoming the terror of death', a word he deliberately chose in favour of anxiety. I wonder if his publisher changed it to dread without asking him. 

8 comments:

  1. Good post, Julia. I've got to get Mr. King's book. Everyone's talking about it.

    I volunteer at my church with the bereavement committee. I meet with the deceased loved ones and arrange funerals, death is part of life. I hope I help smooth this sorrowful moment over for them. Many people are afraid of death. I'm not afraid of it, or reading about it. It's the suffering before death that causes me the angst.... I wouldn't think of it a terror, (unless war ridden) dread sounds better to me...but its only my silly opinion.

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    1. Thanks for your thoughtful comments, Cathrina. I can't recommend this book highly enough.

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  2. Sounds like an interesting book, thanks for sharing some of it with us. I like the analogy of writing with carpentry. The first house my husband and I lived in had a view of a church and cemetery, I found it quite peaceful.

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    1. Thanks for taking the time to comment, Suzanne. I don't believe in ghosts, but I think I'd find it a bit spooky at night if I lived by a cemetery, nonetheless.

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  3. Loved these quotes - great imagery as you say. The first is especially interesting though... makes me wonder whether it is being around so many "past lives"? Or seeing the quaint and peculiar combination of the life in the nature of the cemetery juxtaposed with the death beneath the surface? Or simply a reminder of our own mortality or place in the universe... Even if is none of these, it's kind of beautiful whatever you take from it.

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    1. I'm glad you liked the quotes, Emily. Thanks for stopping by.

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  4. I like those quotes, thanks, Julia. Need to re-read On Writing again as it was so good.

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    1. I can't believe it has taken me so long to get round to reading it, Rosemary.

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